Domestic Violence - How Perpetrators Manipulate Victims - Germany's hidden crisis: Why most domestic violence victims stay silent
Domestic violence remains a widespread yet often hidden issue in Germany. New figures show a 3.8% rise in reported cases for 2024, with nearly two-thirds involving current or former partners. Behind these numbers lie complex patterns of control, where abusers isolate, manipulate, and exploit victims—often without financial dependence playing a role.
A recent study by the University of Cambridge found that abusers frequently use emotional tactics rather than physical force alone. They destabilise victims by exploiting childhood traumas, demeaning them, or threatening worse violence if they speak out. The LeSuBiA Dunkelfeldstudie reveals that one in five women in Germany has faced partner violence at least once, though most cases never reach authorities.
Isolation is a key tool in these relationships. Partners often cut women off from family and friends, making outside support vital for escape. Ella, a survivor, recognised the first warning sign when her partner silenced her opinions. After ending a second pregnancy, she sought help from Pro Familia and eventually found safety in a women's shelter.
Despite the scale of the problem, only around 3% of victims file police reports. Fear of shame or retaliation keeps many silent, leaving official statistics far below the true number of cases.
The 2024 data confirms 265,942 recorded victims, but the real figure is likely much higher. Experts stress the need to examine abusers' strategies rather than victims' actions to break the cycle. For women like Ella, escaping often depends on regaining connections—and the courage to seek help.
