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How childhood bullying scars mental health for a lifetime

A former school social worker reveals how shame in childhood reshapes lives—from stammering in class to lifelong battles with self-worth. The damage doesn’t end at graduation.

In the picture we can see some school children are standing on the path with school uniforms and...
In the picture we can see some school children are standing on the path with school uniforms and they are holding some papers in their hands and one girl is talking something near the microphone which is to the stand and behind them we can see a fencing wall and to the top of it we can see a shed with some balloons top it.

How childhood bullying scars mental health for a lifetime

Bullying and shame can leave deep scars on children and teenagers, shaping their mental health awareness for years. Anika Roßmann, a Berlin-based author and social pedagogue, knows this firsthand—she was bullied as a child and later worked as a school social worker from 2014 to 2019. Her experience highlights how humiliation in childhood can lead to long-term issues like depression, anxiety, and even reduced life expectancy if left unaddressed.

Shame often triggers visible reactions in children, such as blushing, stammering, or freezing in place. These responses can escalate into serious mental health struggles when bullying persists. Schools, in particular, can become hotspots for shame—whether in music lessons, PE classes, or social dynamics among peers.

The consequences of childhood bullying extend far beyond school years, influencing mental health awareness, behaviour, and even physical well-being in adulthood. Recognising shame’s impact and fostering environments of respect can help break the cycle. Without intervention, the effects may linger, shaping lives in ways that are difficult to undo.

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